Our terrace in Crookes has a small front room. Is that really enough floor?
It usually is. Early lessons need about the space of a double bed with the coffee table shifted, because the first job is how the two of you stand, hold and move together rather than covering ground. If the routine grows past the room later, one session somewhere larger sorts it and the price does not move.
We do not want an audience while we practise. Does a lesson at home stay private?
That is the main reason people choose home. It is your instructor and the two of you, with the curtains shut if you like. Nobody films anything, nothing is put online, and there is no group at the side of the room waiting for their turn.
Will the neighbours in our Kelham Island flat hear us thumping about?
Less than you fear. Most of a first dance is walked and turned rather than stamped, and the music only needs to be loud enough for the two of you to hear the beat. If you live above someone light-sleeping, say so and your instructor will keep the work quiet.
Parking in Sheffield is its own sport. Does that make a home visit awkward?
Not enough to matter. Instructors work across these hills all the time and are used to permit streets and steep terraces. Mention anything unusual about your street when you book, and allow a couple of minutes at the start rather than worrying about it.
What happens in the first ten minutes, when we are at our most self-conscious?
Very little that could embarrass anyone. You talk about the wedding, your song goes on, and you are asked to walk about the room to it. Steps come afterwards. Almost every couple relaxes once they realise they are not being auditioned.
Does practising at home genuinely help with nerves on the day?
It helps, though not on its own. Repetition at home makes the routine automatic, which is what nerves cannot easily undo. The other half is rehearsing the being-looked-at part, so towards the end you will be asked to perform the whole thing once, unaided, while your instructor sits down at the other end of the room and offers nothing.
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